Kink-Y: Berlin's
Sex-Positive Community

We are kinky, sex-positive, and celebrate diversity.
We connect through parties, munches, and creative events, cherishing open relationships, polyamory, and alternative lifestyles. Inclusive by nature, we strive to create a safer space where curiosity, connection, and self-expression can thrive shamelessly.

Upcoming Events

The night-time queue outside a Berlin club — the line the Skip List walks past

New · free for the community

Skip the Line at KitKat, Insomnia & Heideglühen

The Skip List is our free guest list for partner club nights. It cannot be bought — it is earned inside the community.

How it works

Skip the Line

Our free guest list for partner club nights — walk past the queue, often with reduced entry, at some nights backstage.

  • KitKat, Insomnia and Heideglühen partner nights
  • Free — there is nothing to buy
  • Earned inside the community, decided by people
How people get on it
Four Play at KitKat
Four Play · KitKat
Unleashed at Insomnia
Unleashed · Insomnia
Disco Paradise at Heideglühen
Disco Paradise · Heideglühen

Recurring Events

Some of what we do comes back. These are the Kink-Y nights with a name and a rhythm — from the monthly munch where most people first meet us, to the small rooms that only fit a few dozen guests. Each one has its own page with the story behind it and every edition we have run.

Kink-Y Pass

Become a Kink-Y Pass member and access exclusive discounts and perks, while directly supporting the growth and sustainability of our community.

As a Kink-Y Pass holder, you gain access to:

  • Discounts on Kink-Y events
  • Discounts on partners:Gastronomy • Wellness • Fashion • Fitness • Arts • Coaching • Shibariand lots more...
  • Nixie Plus — extra features in the app:Anonymous visits • Crush reveals • Last seen • Friends-only profile • First hello to new members • More active dates • Invite-only datesand more...