Kink-Y: Berlin's Sex-Positive Community

We are kinky, sex-positive, and celebrate diversity.
We connect through parties, munches, and creative events, cherishing open relationships, polyamory, and alternative lifestyles. Inclusive by nature, we strive to create a safer space where curiosity, connection, and self-expression can thrive shamelessly.

Some of our partners

The Code partner logoThe Code
Pole partner logoPole
Heroin Kids partner logoHeroin Kids
Lisa Majun partner logoLisa Majun
Massage By Nico partner logoMassage By Nico
Gili Shani partner logoGili Shani
Unleashed partner logoUnleashed
Four Play partner logoFour Play
Red Light Disco partner logoRed Light Disco
Symbiotikka partner logoSymbiotikka
Seven Sins partner logoSeven Sins
Flashback Friday partner logoFlashback Friday
kinktastisch! partner logokinktastisch!
Disco Paradise partner logoDisco Paradise
Trance Baby Trance partner logoTrance Baby Trance

Upcoming Events

New · free for the community

Skip the Line at KitKat, Insomnia & Heideglühen

The Skip List is our free guest list for partner club nights. It cannot be bought — it is earned inside the community.

How to get on the Skip List
The night-time queue outside a Berlin club — the line the Skip List walks past

Skip the Line

Our free guest list for partner club nights — walk past the queue, often with reduced entry, at some nights backstage.

  • KitKat, Insomnia and Heideglühen partner nights
  • Free — there is nothing to buy
  • Earned inside the community, decided by people
How to get on the Skip List
Four Play at KitKat
Four Play · KitKat
Unleashed at Insomnia
Unleashed · Insomnia
Disco Paradise at Heideglühen
Disco Paradise · Heideglühen

Recurring Events

Some of what we do comes back. These are the Kink-Y nights with a name and a rhythm — from the monthly munch where most people first meet us, to the small rooms that only fit a few dozen guests. Each one has its own page with the story behind it and every edition we have run.

Kink-Y Pass

Become a Kink-Y Pass member and access exclusive discounts and perks, while directly supporting the growth and sustainability of our community.

As a Kink-Y Pass holder, you gain access to:

  • Discounts on Kink-Y events
  • Discounts on partners:Gastronomy • Wellness • Fashion • Fitness • Arts • Coaching • Shibariand lots more...
  • Nixie Plus — extra features in the app:Anonymous visits • Crush reveals • Last seen • Friends-only profile • First hello to new members • More active dates • Invite-only datesand more...
BECOME A MEMBER
The Code - Kink-Y Pass Partner
The Code
Pole - Kink-Y Pass Partner
Pole
Heroin Kids - Kink-Y Pass Partner
Heroin Kids
Nyx Noir - Kink-Y Pass Partner
Nyx Noir
Lisa Majun - Kink-Y Pass Partner
Lisa Majun
Trude Jewelry - Kink-Y Pass Partner
Trude Jewelry
Rubber Bear Berlin - Kink-Y Pass Partner
Rubber Bear Berlin
Cherry Pick - Kink-Y Pass Partner
Cherry Pick
Massage By Nico - Kink-Y Pass Partner
Massage By Nico
Tiger of Berlin - Kink-Y Pass Partner
Tiger of Berlin