Kink-Y: Berlin's
Sex-Positive Community

We are kinky, sex-positive, and celebrate diversity.
We connect through parties, munches, and creative events, cherishing open relationships, polyamory, and alternative lifestyles. Inclusive by nature, we strive to create a safer space where curiosity, connection, and self-expression can thrive shamelessly.

Upcoming Events

Kink-Y x Flashback Friday Event

Kink-Y x Flashback Friday

Friday, September 18 at 10:00 PM • Insomnia

Kink-Y x Flashback Friday
registrations till 18th 14:30

We invite you to join Flashback Friday, Berlin’s hottest kinky throwback party!
Celebrate the best of the 90’s and 00’s, from pop bangers and eurodance anthems to hip-hop and rock hits that defined a generation with a kinky twist!

✨ Party Highlights:

  • 💿 Main Floor: Pop, Eurodance & Hip-hop

  • 🎸 Basement: Rock hits all night

  • 🥂 Welcome Shots (22:00–00:00)

  • 🍭 Candies
  • 💋 Whirlpool, play areas + Awareness Team on site

What we offer:
Skip the line + 5€ off the ticket 

Registration is available only via our Telegram bot.
Spots are limited! Don’t miss this nostalgic night of beats and play.

RIGHT BELOW Event

RIGHT BELOW

Thursday, September 24 at 8:30 PM • 14197

A quiet invitation to come down and unwind.

We gather in one of the most iconic under ground sex positive spaces in Berlin, for a more intimate kind of night. With max. of 60 guests, right below, is designed as a cosy after-work escape where conversation, music, and curiosity flow naturally.

Expect a relaxed, sex-positive atmosphere with body painting, massage, unique play areas and a stocked bar throughout the evening.

Some may explore intimacy, some may lounge, some may simply enjoy the company and the setting.

A warm midweek gathering right below the city.

See you there!

Kink-Y Munch Event

Kink-Y Munch

Monday, September 28 at 7:30 PM • Emma Pea

Our monthly Munch is where the community comes together.

Some people come to catch up with friends. Others come to meet new people. And many join Kink-Y for the very first time. Whatever brings you here, you'll find a relaxed atmosphere, genuine conversations, and a welcoming crowd.

The Munch is open to anyone who wants to connect with our S+ community, meet the people behind it, and become part of it at their own pace. It's also the perfect first step before joining our other events.

To keep things fresh, every Munch brings something a little different. A live performance, a special guest, an unexpected surprise... you'll have to be there to find out.

As always, respect, consent, and inclusivity are at the heart of everything we do.

🍸 Come for a drink.
💜 Stay for the people.
✨ Leave with a story.

The night-time queue outside a Berlin club — the line the Skip List walks past

New · free for the community

Skip the Line at KitKat, Insomnia & Heideglühen

The Skip List is our free guest list for partner club nights. It cannot be bought — it is earned inside the community.

How it works

Skip the Line

Our free guest list for partner club nights — walk past the queue, often with reduced entry, at some nights backstage.

  • KitKat, Insomnia and Heideglühen partner nights
  • Free — there is nothing to buy
  • Earned inside the community, decided by people
How people get on it
Four Play at KitKat
Four Play · KitKat
Unleashed at Insomnia
Unleashed · Insomnia
Disco Paradise at Heideglühen
Disco Paradise · Heideglühen

Recurring Events

Some of what we do comes back. These are the Kink-Y nights with a name and a rhythm — from the monthly munch where most people first meet us, to the small rooms that only fit a few dozen guests. Each one has its own page with the story behind it and every edition we have run.

Kink-Y Pass

Become a Kink-Y Pass member and access exclusive discounts and perks, while directly supporting the growth and sustainability of our community.

As a Kink-Y Pass holder, you gain access to:

  • Discounts on Kink-Y events
  • Discounts on partners:Gastronomy • Wellness • Fashion • Fitness • Arts • Coaching • Shibariand lots more...
  • Nixie Plus — extra features in the app:Anonymous visits • Crush reveals • Last seen • More active datesand more...