Kink-Y: Berlin's
Sex-Positive Community

We are kinky, sex-positive, and celebrate diversity.
We connect through parties, munches, and creative events, cherishing open relationships, polyamory, and alternative lifestyles. Inclusive by nature, we strive to create a safer space where curiosity, connection, and self-expression can thrive shamelessly.

Upcoming Events

Kink-Y x Four Play Event

Kink-Y x Four Play

Friday, September 4 at 8:00 PM • KitKat

Kink-Y meets Four Play

One of Berlin’s hottest and most colourful parties!

Kink-Y is bringing you closer to the action with exclusive perks for our Kink-Y Pass members:

✨ Skip-the-line access
✨ Limited discounted tickets
✨ Backstage access

Want in? Stay connected on Telegram.
First come, first served.
This one won’t wait.

REGISTRATIONS UNTIL 03.09 22:00

Join us and step straight into it

Ecstatic Dance Event

Ecstatic Dance

Sunday, September 13 at 6:00 PM • UHU

An evening of ecstatic dance, joy, and free expression. We gather barefoot on the dance floor and move through rhythm, energy and emotion.

Upon arrival, enjoy a cup of cacao to awaken the senses and ease into the experience.

This is an invitation to step out of the mind and into the body. To explore movement, connection, playfulness and authentic expression. 

No talking on the dance floor. No performance. No judgement. Dance alone, or with others, or explore a deeper level of intimacy.

Following the dance and sound healing, the whole space opens into free flow with sauna, connection and intimate possibilities.

PROGRAM

18:00 - 18:30 | Arrival 
18:30 - 18:45 | Cacao
18:45 - 19:00 | Connection Activities
19:00 - 21:30 | Ecstatic Dance
21:30 - 21:45 | Sound Healing
22:00 - 00:00 | Free Flow, Sauna & Connection

RIGHT BELOW Event

RIGHT BELOW

Thursday, September 24 at 8:30 PM • 14197

A quiet invitation to come down and unwind.

We gather in one of the most iconic under ground sex positive spaces in Berlin, for a more intimate kind of night. With max. of 60 guests, right below, is designed as a cosy after-work escape where conversation, music, and curiosity flow naturally.

Expect a relaxed, sex-positive atmosphere with body painting, massage, unique play areas and a stocked bar throughout the evening.

Some may explore intimacy, some may lounge, some may simply enjoy the company and the setting.

A warm midweek gathering right below the city.

See you there!

The night-time queue outside a Berlin club — the line the Skip List walks past

New · free for the community

Skip the Line at KitKat, Insomnia & Heideglühen

The Skip List is our free guest list for partner club nights. It cannot be bought — it is earned inside the community.

How it works

Skip the Line

Our free guest list for partner club nights — walk past the queue, often with reduced entry, at some nights backstage.

  • KitKat, Insomnia and Heideglühen partner nights
  • Free — there is nothing to buy
  • Earned inside the community, decided by people
How people get on it
Four Play at KitKat
Four Play · KitKat
Unleashed at Insomnia
Unleashed · Insomnia
Disco Paradise at Heideglühen
Disco Paradise · Heideglühen

Recurring Events

Some of what we do comes back. These are the Kink-Y nights with a name and a rhythm — from the monthly munch where most people first meet us, to the small rooms that only fit a few dozen guests. Each one has its own page with the story behind it and every edition we have run.

Kink-Y Pass

Become a Kink-Y Pass member and access exclusive discounts and perks, while directly supporting the growth and sustainability of our community.

As a Kink-Y Pass holder, you gain access to:

  • Discounts on Kink-Y events
  • Discounts on partners:Gastronomy • Wellness • Fashion • Fitness • Arts • Coaching • Shibariand lots more...
  • Nixie Plus — extra features in the app:Anonymous visits • Crush reveals • Last seen • More active datesand more...