Kink-Y: Berlin's Sex-Positive Community

We are kinky, sex-positive, and celebrate diversity.
We connect through parties, munches, and creative events, cherishing open relationships, polyamory, and alternative lifestyles. Inclusive by nature, we strive to create a safer space where curiosity, connection, and self-expression can thrive shamelessly.

Some of our partners

The Code partner logoThe Code
Pole partner logoPole
Heroin Kids partner logoHeroin Kids
Lisa Majun partner logoLisa Majun
Massage By Nico partner logoMassage By Nico
Gili Shani partner logoGili Shani
Unleashed partner logoUnleashed
Four Play partner logoFour Play
Red Light Disco partner logoRed Light Disco
Symbiotikka partner logoSymbiotikka
Seven Sins partner logoSeven Sins
Flashback Friday partner logoFlashback Friday
kinktastisch! partner logokinktastisch!
Disco Paradise partner logoDisco Paradise
Trance Baby Trance partner logoTrance Baby Trance

Upcoming Events

Kink-Y x Four Play Event

Kink-Y x Four Play

Friday, November 6 at 8:00 PM • KitKat

Kink-Y meets Four Play

One of Berlin’s hottest and most colourful parties!

Kink-Y is bringing you closer to the action with exclusive perks for our Kink-Y members:

✨ Skip-the-line access
✨ Limited discounted tickets
✨ Backstage access

Want in? Stay connected on Telegram.
First come, first served.
This one won’t wait.

Join us and step straight into it

MERGED Event

MERGED

Friday, November 13 at 9:00 PM • 10243

We're joining forces with our friends from bodysharing for a special private party celebrating the younger generation of Berlin's kink scene! 🖤

A night of energy, curiosity, playful exploration and new connections, bringing together just 50 guests at one of Friedrichshain's renowned Shibari studios, right by the Spree in Holzmarkt.
Expect relaxed vibes, shibari and cosiness. 

An intimate setting for a new generation of open-minded explorers to connect, discover and play.

Time: 21:30–05:00
BYOB

See you there 🖤

Ecstatic Dance +18 Event

Ecstatic Dance +18

Sunday, November 15 at 6:00 PM • UHU

An evening of ecstatic dance, joy, and free expression. We gather barefoot on the dance floor and move through rhythm, energy and emotion.

Upon arrival, enjoy a cup of cacao to awaken the senses and ease into the experience.

This is an invitation to step out of the mind and into the body. To explore movement, connection, playfulness and authentic expression. 

No talking on the dance floor. No performance. No judgement. Dance alone, or with others, or explore a deeper level of intimacy.

Following the dance and sound healing, the whole space opens into free flow with sauna, connection and intimate possibilities.

PROGRAM

18:00 - 18:30 | Arrival 
18:30 - 18:45 | Cacao
18:45 - 19:00 | Connection Activities
19:00 - 21:30 | Ecstatic Dance
21:30 - 21:45 | Sound Healing
22:00 - 00:00 | Free Flow, Sauna & Connection

New · free for the community

Skip the Line at KitKat, Insomnia & Heideglühen

The Skip List is our free guest list for partner club nights. It cannot be bought — it is earned inside the community.

How it works
The night-time queue outside a Berlin club — the line the Skip List walks past

Skip the Line

Our free guest list for partner club nights — walk past the queue, often with reduced entry, at some nights backstage.

  • KitKat, Insomnia and Heideglühen partner nights
  • Free — there is nothing to buy
  • Earned inside the community, decided by people
How people get on it
Four Play at KitKat
Four Play · KitKat
Unleashed at Insomnia
Unleashed · Insomnia
Disco Paradise at Heideglühen
Disco Paradise · Heideglühen

Recurring Events

Some of what we do comes back. These are the Kink-Y nights with a name and a rhythm — from the monthly munch where most people first meet us, to the small rooms that only fit a few dozen guests. Each one has its own page with the story behind it and every edition we have run.

Kink-Y Pass

Become a Kink-Y Pass member and access exclusive discounts and perks, while directly supporting the growth and sustainability of our community.

As a Kink-Y Pass holder, you gain access to:

  • Discounts on Kink-Y events
  • Discounts on partners:Gastronomy • Wellness • Fashion • Fitness • Arts • Coaching • Shibariand lots more...
  • Nixie Plus — extra features in the app:Anonymous visits • Crush reveals • Last seen • Friends-only profile • First hello to new members • More active dates • Invite-only datesand more...
BECOME A MEMBER
The Code - Kink-Y Pass Partner
The Code
Pole - Kink-Y Pass Partner
Pole
Heroin Kids - Kink-Y Pass Partner
Heroin Kids
Nyx Noir - Kink-Y Pass Partner
Nyx Noir
Lisa Majun - Kink-Y Pass Partner
Lisa Majun
Trude Jewelry - Kink-Y Pass Partner
Trude Jewelry
Rubber Bear Berlin - Kink-Y Pass Partner
Rubber Bear Berlin
Cherry Pick - Kink-Y Pass Partner
Cherry Pick
Massage By Nico - Kink-Y Pass Partner
Massage By Nico
Tiger of Berlin - Kink-Y Pass Partner
Tiger of Berlin