Kink-Y Consent in sex-positive parties

What is Consent?

Consent is an informed, enthusiastic, and ongoing agreement to participate in any activity. In kink, this becomes even more important due to the intense nature of many activities.

Key Principles: Consent must be informed (understanding what you're agreeing to), enthusiastic (genuine desire to participate), ongoing (can be withdrawn at any time), and specific (consent to one activity doesn't mean consent to all).

🔍 Practical Tips for Consensual Interactions

🌸 Cultivate Sensitivity • 🎯 Redefine Your Goals • 👐 Touch and Personal Space • 🛑 Recognize Discomfort Signs • 👀 Read the Room • 🚫 Avoid Assumptions

🧠 Assess Mental and Awareness State • 🧘 Maintain Control and Awareness • ✋ Honor Withdrawn Consent • 🙏 Express Gratitude for Boundaries • 📝 Negotiate Play Boundaries • 🔄 Continuous Check-ins • 🗣️ Safe Words

🛠️ Handling Non-Consensual Behaviors

💪 Build Confidence and Communication Skills • 🌟 Stay Resilient • 👥 Remember, You're Not Alone • 🧠 Be Aware, Not Scared • 📞 Contact Host Immediately, Don't Wait Until the Next Day

Enhance your understanding and create safer, more respectful interactions at sex-positive parties.

Community Support & Safety

Hosts are Always Available: Our hosts are always available and look after everyone. If you are unsure of something, contact us immediately.

Collective Responsibility: We as a community have a collective responsibility, so we look after each other. If something doesn't directly involve you but feels off, act immediately and contact the hosts.

Awareness Teams: Events in bigger venues where hosts cannot easily check on everyone always have an awareness team dedicated to maintaining safety and support.

Learning and Growing

Remember: Learning about consent is an ongoing process. It's okay to make mistakes as long as you're committed to learning and improving.

Need help or have questions? Our community is here to support your journey in understanding and practicing enthusiastic consent.