Kink-Y sex-positive event guidelines
Creating Safe, Consensual, and Inclusive Experiences
Welcome to Kink-Y Events
We offer a broad range of monthly events, from recurring classics to innovative new experiences. No matter if you're an experienced kinkster or simply curious, our events are designed to make everyone feel comfortable and welcome. We emphasise mutual respect, consent, and understanding of each person's boundaries. And don't worry, you're more than welcome to join us just for drinks, socialising, and enjoying the atmosphere!
Kink-Y is committed to ensuring the highest standards of hygiene, attention to detail, warmth, politeness, and gentleness in all our events. We believe in fostering a welcoming and respectful community that upholds the values of sex positivity.
🎬 How Our Parties Work
Watch our founder explain how Kink-Y parties work and what to expect:
📋 Before Joining Our Events
Learn About Consent
Understanding consent is fundamental to our community. Please read our comprehensive guide on consent in kinky contexts to ensure you're prepared for respectful interactions.
Know Our Philosophy
Familiarize yourself with our values and four pillars (Shameless, Safer, Consent, Inclusive) that guide everything we do at Kink-Y.
Event Selection Process
We maintain gender balance and prioritize creating a pleasant atmosphere for everyone. We don't focus on age or conventional beauty standards, but we do appreciate people who are respectful and enjoyable to be around.
How to Get Accepted
New to Kink-Y? We recommend starting with our munches and non-sexual events to connect with the community, get verified, and demonstrate respectful behavior. This makes it easier to join our more intimate events.
We balance experienced members with newcomers to ensure everyone feels welcome and safe in our community.
Community Standards
We welcome all genders, sexualities, ethnicities, and backgrounds. Treat everyone with kindness and respect, regardless of their experience level, identity, or background. Discrimination of any kind is not tolerated.
What happens at events stays at events. No photos/videos without explicit consent from everyone involved. We prioritize creating a safe, private space for authentic expression and connection.
Phones and Privacy
Phones are not allowed at the party. If you need to use your phone, go to a private area such as a bathroom or a space without people. This policy helps maintain the intimate, present atmosphere we strive to create.
Safety & Wellbeing
Be honest about your experience level and don't attempt activities beyond your skills or comfort zone. Maintain good personal hygiene and be transparent about any health conditions that might affect play.
Substance Policy: No drugs. Alcohol in moderation only. Intoxicated individuals cannot give valid consent.
Event Etiquette
Respect the event schedule and arrive punctually. Late arrivals may miss important safety briefings. Each event has specific dress code requirements - check event details and come prepared.
What to Bring: Your towel, lube, toys, and condoms. Come prepared for safe and enjoyable experiences.
Help maintain the space by cleaning up after yourself and respecting the venue. Remember, these guidelines help create a safe space for everyone to explore and connect authentically.